When I see gangs of angry gay men roaming the street to beat up someone because they are heterosexual, then perhaps I will be concerned. When I see cisgender bodies cowering in fear, because a trans person is threatening them for their gender presentation, then perhaps I will worry. When I see White people across the globe, terrified when they see a the flashing lights of a police car, perhaps I will rethink issues of race imbalance. And finally, when I see men afraid to walk to their cars after dark and arming themselves with self defence classes and mace, perhaps I won’t question the stereotype of women always complaining.